You’ve probably heard it said you get what you expect. Do you really believe that? Many people I know don’t. Yet they always do get what they expect. John Cali We’ve talked about expectations in two earlier articles, one on July 8, 2008 and the other October 7, 2008. But I thought it time to [...]

When Will You Die?, our article from two weeks ago, generated some interesting feedback from our readers, all of it positive. Except for one email. John Cali Here’s that one email, exactly as I received it — except it was in all-capital letters. In email lingo that’s called “shouting.” “Do you always need to be [...]

How do you feel about yourself? I mean everything about you, especially your physical body. Good or bad or somewhere in-between? John Cali Spirit and I have talked about self-esteem before, most recently in this article. It’s obvious that many — probably including ourselves, at least at one time or another — suffer from low [...]