Archive | December, 2010

False Responsibility Revisited by John Cali

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A Life Without Hatred Reflection Questions by John Cali

  What are some of the ways you can follow Alice’s example of refusing to hate even those who hate you?  What can you do to change your immediate world into a more loving place?  Can you think of ways you can create more peace and love within your own family?  

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A Life Without Hatred by John Cali

This week’s video gives us a glimpse into the life of an amazing woman, Alice Herz-Sommer. Alice’s story is perfect for this holiday season when many folks’ thoughts turn to peace on earth. John Cali A few weeks ago, on November 26, Alice celebrated her 107th birthday. She’s the oldest living Holocaust survivor. Alice, an [...]

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False Responsibility Reflection Questions by John Cali

  Do you take on the problems and grief of others out of habit? What can you do to change that? Can you think of more positive, constructive ways to help them?  

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False Responsibility by John Cali

I have quite a few folks among my family and friends, mostly women, who are genuinely loving people, but who often take care of others while neglecting themselves. Sound familiar? John Cali I call this false responsibility. Not false in the sense of being phony, but false in the sense of having misaligned priorities. These [...]

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Be in the Moment Reflection Questions by John Cali

  Can you recall a recent time when you haven’t been fully present? What can you do to become more fully aware in each moment? Can you think of at least one or two positive results that would come from full present-moment awareness?  

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Be in the Moment by John Cali

A few weeks ago I was shopping at the local supermarket. As I paid the bill I reached into my pocket and pulled out my car key. I walked out of the store about 100 feet to my car. When I got to the car, my key had vanished. John Cali So I had to [...]

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