Archive | March, 2012

Question: Should We Put Ourselves First? by John Cali

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How’s Your Self-Esteem? by John Cali

I’ve been away from home the past 10 days. So this week we’re revisiting an earlier article on that perennial problem so many of us have — self-esteem. Read the article here. P.S. We’ll be talking more about self-esteem in our blog the next few weeks.

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8 Signs Your Ego Is Controlling You by John Cali

What is your honest opinion of yourself? If you’re like many folks it’s probably not very high. Sometimes, perhaps often, you struggle with low self-esteem, a poor self-image. You find it hard to draw on your own inner resources to feel good about your life. So you become dependent upon resources outside yourself to make [...]

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Does Life Scare You to Death? by John Cali

Fear is one of the biggest challenges we humans deal with every day of our lives. But is there really anything to be afraid of — anything at all? Does life scare you to death? If it does, a change in perspective is in order. Neale Donald Walsch talks about the emotion of fear in [...]

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Fear by John Cali

(This article was originally published October 21, 2008.) This past week we’ve had a broad and intense discussion of fear at one of our new discussion forums. A timely subject, given the state of our world today. I’m sure most of us know one of the greatest fears people have is fear of death. We [...]

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Buddhist Catholicism by John Cali

Does that title sound like a contradiction in terms? How can you be Buddhist and Catholic? The Washington Post has been following the story of a Roman Catholic priest denying communion to a lesbian at her mother’s funeral. And then he walked out on the funeral mass. You can imagine the furor that set off. [...]

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The Depression Epidemic: Followup by John Cali

We received some great feedback on our last blog post, The Depression Epidemic. The comments from one of our readers reminded me I had perhaps been a bit insensitive, albeit unintentionally, toward people who’ve found antidepressants helpful. Here, slightly edited, are some excerpts from the comments, plus my responses: Reader’s comments: “I notice Dr. (Andrew) [...]

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Messages from the Animals by John Cali

One recent evening after supper I happened to look out into my backyard. Standing there were five small deer, grazing on the sparse foliage of that late winter day. Deer are such beautiful, gentle creatures. I love watching them. We’re blessed to have so many of them where I live. As the deer grazed contentedly [...]

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The Depression Epidemic by John Cali

According to Andrew Weil, MD, “…some substantial percentage of the depression epidemic is manufactured by the medical-pharmaceutical industry.” He goes on to say the industry has convinced many people that ordinary sadness is an abnormal condition, a “disease” that should be treated with drugs. But even if that “substantial percentage” is removed, Dr, Weil continues, [...]

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Addictions Revisited by John Cali

We received some interesting comments about last week’s newsletter article, Addictions. Here are a couple of excerpts from two different people: “What does Spirit have to say about AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) and similar organizations? I mean, if by joining AA (someone) gains a clearer understanding of the precious Being that he/she is, isn’t that a [...]

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