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The Secret to Living Your Life with Effortless Ease by John Cali

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What’s Wrong with Me? by John Cali

Image Credits An old friend (she’s not old, but we’ve been friends many years) wrote me an email recently. With her permission, here it is: Hi John, It’s been a while, I know, hope this email finds you well. Am still enjoying your newsletters and blogs muchly… There is something I’ve pondered for a while [...]

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The Only Thing That Matters Is Love by John Cali

Here are a few of the most common questions we get in personal readings: I want to work for myself, but how can I do it? How can I find work I love to do? How can I live my dreams? How can I do what I love and still make money? It’s obvious the [...]

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What Exactly Do Spirit Guides Do? by John Cali

Image Credits After giving private readings for many years, I’ve come to realize many folks don’t understand exactly what spirit guides do. Before I started channelling I did not understand either. One common misconception is our guides will tell us what to do, what we should or should not do, etc. Remember, they are spirit [...]

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15 Surefire Keys To Happiness by John Cali

Image Credits Happiness, ironically, can be a controversial subject. Many folks believe it is not our destiny to be happy in this lifetime—in this “world of woe,” as some say. I never accepted that. Happiness is not the impossible dream many believe it to be. Certainly, continuous happiness is not most people’s experience. That does [...]

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You Can Grow Older Gracefully and Still Have Fun Along the Way by John Cali

Image Credits We live in a society today obsessed with youth and physical beauty. And, in my opinion, a society with too little regard for the wisdom and experience of older folks. Society considers growing older a curse none of us can escape—unless we die young. We’re driven desperately to find something—anything—that will keep us [...]

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Does It Matter What Other People Say or Think About You? by John Cali

  Image Credits On the internet I occasionally see harshly critical opinions of me and my work with Spirit. I still sometimes get hate mail. Years ago that sort of thing bothered me—a lot. Today I’ve learned it doesn’t matter what people say or think about me. That’s a very freeing feeling. All that matters, [...]

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How Can Anyone Be Happy In This Confusing, Chaotic World? by John Cali

Image Credits Many of us measure happiness by external criteria—how much money we have, what kind of house we live in, how many friends we have, etc. But those things can, and will, change. Then we’re unhappy. The money, the house, the friends—those are the “reasons” we use to be happy. But they are never [...]

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The Fear of Death: Sequel by John Cali

  We had some great responses to our last newsletter article, The Fear of Death. One comment Spirit made in that article is a tough one for many folks to accept. Here’s what they said: “Death does not exist. Let go of the fear of death, and then you will soar.” At least several people [...]

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The Fear of Death by John Cali

Last week one of our family died at a relatively young age. She’d been suffering from a serious illness since she was in her 40s. I know, as my spirit guides often say, we all die at the time and in the manner we choose. Yet when someone close dies, it’s still an adjustment for [...]

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