Please spend some time, before you send your question, thinking about the issues that concern you most at this time of your life.
Make your question as specific as you can. Avoid asking broadly general questions. For example, “What can you tell me about my mother?” While there is nothing wrong with those sorts of questions, they usually don’t result in answers you’ll find satisfactory. The more specific your question, the more specific will be the answer you receive. General questions will get you only general answers.