As you might expect, one of the questions
Chief Joseph and I get most often is about relationships. Especially
romantic relationships and relationships with parents, usually the
mother, sometimes the father.
John Cali
The specific questions vary, but generally revolve around two
issues. First: How can I stop the other person from making me feel
bad? Second: How can I make the relationship more loving?
Here’s Chief Joseph.
Chief Joseph
Relationships are a fertile field for your personal and spiritual
growth. Every one of you have chosen your relationships because you,
at the soul level, have clearly seen the chosen relationships are
your greatest opportunities for growth.
It really doesn’t matter if we’re talking about romantic
relationships or parent-child relationships. Or, for that matter,
any other relationships.
Friends, it’s all about growth.
What so many humans have yet to understand is that your lives are
all about growing. And about growing in joy. Your life’s
purpose, as you’ve heard us say often, is joy. Period!
You have the freedom to choose whatever brings you joy. Whatever
you choose will certainly bring you growth. It doesn’t matter if,
in hindsight, you judge your choices "good" or
"bad."
Good or bad, your choices always result in your greater
personal and spiritual growth. Always! No exceptions.
Instead of beating up on yourselves for having chosen, for
example, a "bad" lover, rejoice you chose that lover.
Why rejoice? Because now you know what kind of a lover you do not
want. You now know more about the kind of lover you do want.
As for your parents, you obviously cannot go back and choose new
biological parents. But you can trust in the wisdom of your higher
self when you, as your higher self, chose your parents before
incarnating.
Your higher self’s choice of your parents was absolutely
perfect. Hear that? Perfect!
Why perfect? Because those parents were, at the time of your
physical birth, your greatest opportunity for growth in this
lifetime.
The key, friends, to creating loving relationships -- and to
turning your current relationships into more loving ones -- is to
simply trust all is well, no matter where you are. The key is
to look for the positives, the opportunities in all your
relationships, whether you consider them "good" or
"bad."
When you do that, you will know, in your heart and gut, which are
the best relationships for you.
Choose only the best ones. Leave behind the others.
That, friends, is the key to creating more and more loving
relationships. It’s the key to creating more and more growth. Most
importantly, it’s the key to creating more joy.
Joy is your life’s only purpose.
Choose joy. Be joy.
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