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If you answered “Yes” to that question, you’re not alone.

Most of my Roman Catholic family have disapproved of my spiritual path ever since I started channelling years ago. I have a great relationship with many of them. But even the ones I’m closest to have told me they pray for me so I won’t go to hell. That amuses me, and I just tell them hell doesn’t exist.

When David Thomas filmed the movie Tuning In with 5 other channels and me, my family, except for my brother, could not have cared less. Only my brother has ever seen the film.

Recently another family member, upset—enraged, really—about my spiritual path, sent me several letters. I can only describe them as venomous. That certainly ruined our relationship. I just sent her love and light, and released her to her own path.

I know many of you reading this have put yourselves out into the public eye doing your spiritual work. As you well know, there will always be someone out there willing to criticize or condemn you for your spiritual path. That’s part of “the cost of doing business” with the public.

My spirit guides often say all paths lead home, whether those paths are “spiritual” or not. I firmly believe that, even for those who deliberately strike out to hurt others.

Here are some of Spirit’s thoughts.

  • There is only one person whose opinion of your spiritual path, or of you, matters. That person is you.
  • If someone is unkind to you, there is only one appropriate response—be kind.
  • If you always follow your heart, in your spiritual practices or any other area of your life, you will never get lost. You cannot get it wrong.
  • As one of your famous writers says, “Your only obligation in any lifetime is to be true to yourself.” (Spirit is referring to Richard Bach.)
  • Everyone has their own path to follow, a path orchestrated by their human and spirit selves. You have no business criticizing them for any reason.
  • Instead of criticizing others for being different, simply rejoice in the diversity. If you did not have that diversity your human lives would indeed be boring.
  • You have no obligation to be faithful to anyone else’s truth but your own.
  • Your truth is the highest and best truth.
  • Your inner guidance is your highest, best, and only authority.
  • You are all God in human form. Remember that, and you will never go astray.


Here’s one of my favorite people explaining how she reacted when her fiancé did not support her spiritual path:

Related links:
Are You on the Wrong Spiritual Path?
Being True to Yourself
All Paths Lead Home


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About John Cali
John Cali is a writer, blogger, and channel for a group of spirit guides. His next book is Real Answers to Life’s Pesky Questions: Conversations With Spirit, Book 1. John lives in northwestern Wyoming.