We’re living in a contentious era of disrespect and disregard for others’ opinions, especially if they do not agree with ours. Do you have a hard time talking with someone who does not agree with you?


Although this is rapidly changing, many of you still struggle with speaking with those whose ideas, lifestyles, and opinions are different from yours.

Today we’re asking you to ask yourselves why this is. And what you can do about it. We’ll give you a few of our ideas here. Then you can do some soul-searching. We suspect that will open some closed doors for you.

First, the only reason, ever, you struggle with others, no matter who they are or what their opinions are, is you see yourselves as separate from others.

And yet the reality is you are all one. There is no separation. You are merely different aspects of the reality you call God or Goddess.

Of course, there are no real differences. There only appear to be some while you are embodied in physical reality.

Of course, the key to unravelling all this is love.

We have defined love as the choice to see the divinity in all beings, in all that is.

Once you make that choice, the struggle you have with the apparent separation will slowly vanish. And so too will the illusion of separation itself vanish.

Copyright © 2021 by John Cali and Berna Copray
Edited by Berna Copray


In this short video, communications expert Dr. Michelle Rozen offers some great tips for dealing with people you don’t agree with. Her tips might even save some of your relationships.

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